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Following the Rules

Nirvana Tank with Leather Jacket and Lace skirtI typically never make New Year’s Resolutions. It’s not that I don’t believe in them, but I definitely don’t want to make a resolution just for the sake of making one. That doesn’t mean that I don’t believe in setting goals and following through though, especially when it comes to art projects or cosplay, which on a side note may have something to do with why I am also a Project Manager in “real life”. So going back to goals, this year I actually did get to thinking about some goals – at least for this blog.

First of all, please don’t be too harsh with me on these goals, since I realize some of these seem incredibly superficial and have no sense of self-growth. But goals are goals and hopefully I’ll keep these in mind this year!

1. Shop less and re-use more! I have way too many clothes and really need to be better about recycling my clothing more. My friend recently did a “shopstinance” project where she didn’t shop for 40 days. That may be something I should consider…

2. Wear more heels in real life. Ok, this is probably the most superficial goal ever, but I love the look of heels with an outfit (as seen in many of my photos), but when it comes down to wearing heels in real life, I often switch to flats as my preferred shoe due to laziness.

3. Experiment more! I definitely buy a lot of the same things – black pants in every style possible, black dresses that all look the same, shirts in the same patterns, etc. I’d love to vary my wardrobe more, but then I think about my first goal…

4. Be creative – I guess this is an extension on goal #3, but sometimes I definitely see myself falling into trends and I don’t necessarily think that’s always a good thing.

So today’s outfit at least fulfills goal #1 in the fact that I am not wearing anything new and everything I am wearing is at least 9 months old. At least that’s one step in the right direction!

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6 Comments

  • Aaron Reiser

    Don’t be too hard on yourself about goals! Sometimes it is just the realization that you want to do something more that start an amazing year of right. Keep at it and keep going strong! Love the work!

  • Abigail C

    I find your goals inspiring–they are sensible, and fairly attainable–they kind of balance each other out, I think (the whole, be creative vs. buying more). I’ve been trying to streamline and improve my wardrobe–and I do feel it edging away from “my closet is full but I have nothing to wear” toward a better balance of things I actually like wearing. It’s still pretty full in there, but we’re making progress. I thoroughly enjoy your blog! But heels, man…I have a couple pairs I love, but the influx of adorable flat booties has really been a Godsend for me!

    • emilyo

      Haha, yeah, I love the flat bootie for sure! I am totally there with you and the “closet is full but nothing to wear” syndrome. Sometimes I’m just disgusted with how many clothes I have! I do wish I could streamline my wardrobe as well, but also have a hard time getting rid of stuff.

      And thanks for the support! Glad you are enjoying my posts! :)

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